CJ, 38, (pictured) has been single for six years
CJ, 38
Dating Past
It’s been a bit of a train wreck. I sometimes think I’m cursed as it never goes right. I’ve been in one serious relationship and I have dated online but, at the moment, it feels like there’s little point.
Pre-Date Nerves?
I’ve never been on a virtual date before, so I was nervous; I don’t even turn my camera on in Zoom meetings for work. I put on a nice dress, did my hair and make-up and ordered my favourite Italian meal. I set the screen up on my table, lit candles and even put the fireplace channel on the TV.
First Impressions?
I was trying to imagine what someone called Rose might look like. I had all these pictures in my head, but she was so warm and pretty. I could tell she’d done her hair as well which was a relief as I’d have felt silly if I’d been the only one. She has a lovely smile, pretty eyes and made me feel comfortable.
Easy To Talk To?
Every time she told me she was nervous I just thought she was so sweet and wanted to give her a hug to make her feel better. We both like horror movies, old sci-fi television and Tales Of The Unexpected, which is unusual. We chatted for so long.
When she told me she was nervous, I wanted to give her a big hug
Embarrassing Moments?
Rose did mention she doesn’t drink alcohol, while I was having a glass of wine. As I’m not used to talking so much, I had to keep getting a drink — but I did it off-camera in case she got offended.
Did Sparks Fly?
We’re both shy and nervous, so it was difficult to tell, but I did like her. I’m not naturally flirty as it makes me feel vulnerable. It would have been nice if we could have spoken for longer.
Would you like to meet in person?
I’d like to meet her again and see what might develop as she’s such a lovely person. Rose does stand-up comedy, which is incredibly brave and I’d definitely go and support her.
What do you think she thought of you?
I’m not sure. I’m not good at judging people, but I’d like to think she was happy with the date.
Would your family like her?
Rose, 37, (pictured) has been single for eight years
I think my friends would get on with her as she’s so down-to-earth and not pretentious at all.
ROSE, 37
Dating Past
I’m pansexual as I’m attracted to the person rather than the gender. My last long-term relationship of three years ended around eight years ago. I’m friends with him now. We work much better as friends.
Pre-Date Nerves?
This was my first virtual date and I was nervous. I’d set up in my living room and had my phone resting on a stack of books near a lamp for good lighting. I put on a nice yellow dress, curled my hair and ordered my favourite Chinese.
First Impressions?
Claire is pretty with a lovely smile and just looked so warm and friendly. She’s got a great bubbly personality. She was wearing a silk black and red ‘going out’ top. It was nice that we had both made the effort.
Easy To Talk To?
We have a lot in common and share a strong work ethic. Claire is adventurous and desperate to go travelling once lockdown is over, while I just want to be able to meet my friends and hang out. We both recently moved into our own places after years of house-sharing. I liked how confident she seemed. Claire poses for life drawings, does yoga and seems to like trying new things.
I liked her confidence, she even poses for life drawing classes
Embarrassing Moments?
As with many video calls, there were a couple of times when there was a slight delay and we both talked at the same time. But it was a lovely date. We talked for nearly three hours before we realised it was past 10pm.
Did Sparks Fly?
I definitely thought she was attractive and there might be room for romance. We’d have to meet in person to find out. I’m usually a flirty person, but more so in person.
Would you like to meet in person ?
Absolutely — I’d love to and we’ve been messaging each other since.
What do you think she thought of you?
I hope she liked me, as she came across as friendly and enjoying our conversation. I think we’ll keep going. I’d like to keep in touch.
Would your family like her?
They’d love her as she’s so genuine, warm and chatty.
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